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Divorce Catalysts

Divorce Catalysts: Financial Infidelity & the Erosion of Trust

I am not here to judge you, but this is a nudge you should not ignore.

Children of Divorce

As a child of divorce, I am Outstanding at Packing.

I never felt wanted at my father's home on weekend 'visits'

Step Mother

My Bedroom or Hers?

One dinner party I heard Isabella laugh that out loud that at least I wasn't sleeping in the cupboard under the stairs

Mother's Day

Mother’s Day: My Experience as the 'Disappointing' Child.

What does Mother's Day mean to you? Why is it important?  What are your expectations?

History of Divorce

Divorce in Rome 2BCE was as easy as 'tuas res tibi habeto'- (keep your property to yourself).

In Ancient Egypt marriage and divorce were seen as private contracts. Men and women had rights to dissolve the marriage and property and wealth were divided. You could cite dissatisfaction as a reason.

Marriage Trauma

I Should Never Have Put a Ring on It: Now I am trapped.

It was a warning sign that I ignored, and who doesn't want to be adored? I spent way too many years with her having my ego stroked when her bestie said 'Don't you think it's time you manned up and put a ring on her finger?'

Childhood Healing

Family Dinners Cause me Anxiety.

The silence between mum and dad was eerie. A sigh here, a cough there. A gulp and a small pat on the thigh.

Valentine's Day

Valentine Who?

I learnt a few weeks ago about a trend that is gaining traction called 'Me First', or 'First Me', or 'Put Me First'- which started in 2022 and went viral. Yes, it's predominantly owned by the youth, but hey, maybe they are onto something.

Expert Series

Navigating the Complexities of Divorce? A Family Lawyer Shares Valuable Advice.

It appears that women, mothers, tend to want to finish everything as quickly as possible to avoid conflict. They believe this will protect the kids,

Protecting your future

WeNup. Online Prenup and Postnups made easy.

Both parties come to the table with full disclosure of their assets. It can be daunting for some, but it also creates vulnerability and transparency. It is a place where couples get to voice their needs, ideals and concerns about the future.

Adultery & Infidelity

I continue to cheat on my wife

I know she will smell them and check the pockets for clues- it's only natural. Being caught gave me new skills to not get caught again

Divorce Reflections

Some thoughts about divorce as we come to the end of 2024.

The stigma of divorce is very much alive at work and with friends and family.

Children of Divorce

Why can't he sign my birthday card?

He does this thing where he drives by late at night and pops it through our letterbox like he is a weird version of Santa.

Emotional Abuse

I never realised I was In danger until she asked if I was OK.

When the twins started senior school, I studied for a degree in something he 'approved' of. After all, he was paying the fees and wasn't going to waste a penny on me learning something worthless.

Abusive-Mother Featured

She told me my father didn’t love me enough to stay.

My mother abused the very part of me that was my father, and he presumed me to be my mother, I was disliked immensely by both parents till the day they died

Adultery & Infidelity

I am madly in love with my ex-wife.

Life got harder and we couldn't catch our breath to repair the cracks that were forming under the extreme pressure of life. We loved each other, that was not the issue and still isn't.

Adultery & Infidelity

She told me her divorce was simple. I learnt otherwise.

The wedding was beautiful, the party was fun, and still there lingered a sense of why did he wait so long? She shelved her grievances until one night....

Children of Divorce

I could have this many siblings. I don't want to know.

How many siblings does she have? She doesn't know and she doesn't want to know. She has taken herself off all social media to avoid being contacted by the many more lurking out there.

Dating After Divorce

Online dating coach- trust me, we all need one.

Your profile is no different to the cover of a book and the text at the back. When you want someone to take an interest in you, you must show them who you are. When you do this your interaction with others improves.

Divorced Dad

My ex-wife set the visitation rules and I didn't fight her.

Give her what she wants financially. I will not go to court and put my little girl through watching her parents fight over her.

Parental Alienation

What to do and not do in a parental alienation situation.

I want you to make sure you don't compare everything your ex does as alienation and make false accusations that can cause unnecessary harm.

Happily Married

I fell in love with my ex-husband

There were many first dates, 'the men were nice enough,' but she never felt any connection until she met Mark. Mark was interesting and funny, and she believed he shared the values she was looking for in a husband and father to her unborn children.

Expert Series

The coach you need for a 'tricky' divorce.

Nawal is a lawyer, a mediator, and a divorcee. When she experienced leaving her narcissistic ex, Google search couldn't provide her with the necessary information to deal with her 'tricky divorce'

Burn out

He cared even less after we divorced.

It took another two years for me to say out loud to myself 'I want a divorce' and to actually call a lawyer. I threatened divorce all the time, assuring him that one day he would have to be a parent that turns up.

Divorce

OUR KIDS FIRST

It takes a village to raise a child, but not everybody has a village to turn to. We may not be aware that we can and should ask for help, but every community needs a Billy Katz to build a village.