When we start to see aspects that don't fit with the perfect person we fell in love with, it can feel like betrayal.

a person continuously adjusts themself to suit their spouse and as time passes by, their sense of self has faded away.

Christmas marketing reminding me that my life was already a failure, that I was an outcast from societal norms. One celebrated the idea of Christmas and the other thought it was nonsense.

No longer telling her she hadn't achieved anything in her life, he started to assure her she was a crap mother. He began to undermine every single decision she made.

Sara wrongly expected he would want a quick and easy divorce, considering his betrayal and a baby on the way.

We did attempt therapy, and when I raised the topic of his affairs he laughed and assured the therapist he had left no evidence.

We tried multiple therapists, but she wouldn't see her role in the demise of us. She focused on every minute detail of what I didn't do, she was a pit bull with her anger and sensitive to everything.

Two best friends, two cheating husbands, two very different divorce experiences; one easy and one that took four years. They quickly learnt how hard it was to navigate and created The ExExperts.

I hated going to my dad and I dreaded coming home to my mum. Neither home was emotionally safe for me,

My children have suffered and continue to suffer and it hurts me that I can't shield them from this madness. Each one has reacted differently and at different times

‘I am a gambler, I have an addiction, I have hurt the people I love, I have stolen and I have paid for all of it financially and today I am still paying emotionally for my actions. Vanessa had a right to be hurt and angry, but the kids did not deserve the pain and anger she pushed upon them.’

When you are the person paying child support, alimony, mortgage/rent, the idea of meeting a financial advisor can seem ridiculous.

hey bought a stunning apartment overlooking a park, and Matt got to walk home from work to his beautiful Vikki. Pure romance. Not for a second had he considered marriage. He had grown up in a volatile, unstable home, and it had put him off the idea of marriage.

How we are in relationships is learnt behaviour from watching our parents from the day we are born to 5yrs. This is not something we are consciously aware of.

He lied about money, he lied about what he ate for lunch. A love story ruined by financial deceit

Well, it was great until my brother-in-law followed me and saw us going for a run together. My wife confronted me when I returned, and I lied. She showed me the photos and threw me out

Dani is a vibrant powerhouse of a woman. She has a very honest and direct way about her and I couldn’t imagine her story would be so awful, especially as they never had a child together.

A passion project about human behaviour at its most vulnerable and irrational. Divorce is not the end.